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19 Best Friendship Books

The best friendship books, ranked by how many expert sources recommend each one, with notes for choosing practical nonfiction, warm stories, and complex novels.

Our take

Friendship books can offer practical reflection on maintaining a bond or let you spend time inside a fictional relationship. These titles include close pairs, complicated groups, childhood companions, and friendships that change as people grow older. Some are warm and funny; others examine rivalry, betrayal, grief, or the limits of care. A shared theme does not mean a shared emotional experience.

Big Friendship uses two friends' own experiences to consider the work of staying close. Text Me When You Get Home looks more broadly at women's friendships and their cultural importance. For fiction, My Brilliant Friend follows intimacy and competition within a changing social world, while The Perks of Being a Wallflower stays close to a teenager learning to belong. Cat's Eye offers a darker account of a childhood bond, and A Little Life demands a much larger emotional commitment. Start with Big Friendship for reflection on real relationships, or choose a novel whose tone matches the reading experience you want.

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How to choose from this list

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If you want reflection on maintaining adult friendships: Big Friendship
If you want a wider view of women's friendships: Text Me When You Get Home
If you want a sustained friendship novel: My Brilliant Friend
If you want a teenage perspective: The Perks of Being a Wallflower
If you want friendship and creative collaboration: Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow
If you want a darker examination of a bond: Cat's Eye

The 19 books, ranked

Ranked by how many expert sources name each book. Ties go to the book more people recommend.

1

For readers who want adult friendship treated as a relationship worth deliberate effort. Two authors' shared account makes conflict and repair feel concrete, though the focus on one bond offers less of a systematic handbook than some readers may want.

What it's about

Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman examine the first decade of their friendship, including closeness, conflict, distance, and efforts to repair the relationship. Their experiences and interviews with others explore the deliberate investment required to sustain a significant bond over time.

2

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

by Stephen Chbosky1999

For readers who want friendship seen through an intimate teenage voice. The letter format makes loneliness and belonging feel close, though the apparent simplicity contains serious trauma and offers a deliberately limited view of other characters.

What it's about

Charlie writes letters as he stumbles through high school, grief, first love, and unexpected friendship. It's an intimate coming-of-age story about loneliness, belonging, and the hard work of learning how to really participate in life.

Also recommended by

2 people
3

The Book Thief

by Markus Zusak2005

For readers who want friendship and shared words to matter within historical fiction. Zusak's unusual narrator gives the relationships a distinctive perspective, though the stylized voice and wartime losses make the emotional effects deliberately pronounced.

What it's about

In Nazi Germany, young Liesel Meminger steals books, learns the force of words, and finds fragile belonging with her foster family. Narrated by Death, the novel follows love, fear, and small acts of kindness in wartime.

Also recommended by

1 person
4

For readers interested in friendship shaped by making things together. Zevin gives creative collaboration, ambition, and misunderstanding sustained attention, though the long timeline, gaming references, and emotional reversals make it more expansive than a simple story of companionship.

What it's about

Childhood friends Sam Masur and Sadie Green reunite in college and build a hit video game together. Over three decades, their creative partnership is tested by ambition, fame, grief, disability, and the complicated love that keeps drawing them back together.

Also recommended by

1 person
5

Bridge to Terabithia

by Katherine Paterson1977

For readers who want a short story about friendship's effect on imagination and confidence. Paterson takes young feelings seriously without elaborate prose, though the book's sudden grief can be much heavier than its childhood setting first suggests.

What it's about

Jess Aarons wants to be the fastest runner in fifth grade, but new neighbor Leslie Burke changes his life in bigger ways. Together they build Terabithia, a secret kingdom of imagination, until sudden tragedy forces Jess to grow.

6

A Little Life

by Hanya Yanagihara2015

For readers who want an expansive, emotionally intense novel about loyalty and care. Yanagihara gives friendship enormous weight across decades, though the length and graphic accumulation of abuse and suffering make this a difficult, often exhausting choice.

What it's about

Four college friends move to New York seeking careers and companionship, their relationships changing over decades. Their shared devotion to Jude, whose childhood trauma remains largely concealed, shapes a story of friendship, care and enduring psychological pain.

Also recommended by

4 people
7

Of Mice and Men

by John Steinbeck1937

For readers who want a brief, concentrated story about companionship and responsibility. Steinbeck gives friendship a sharp social setting and moral weight, though the portrayal of disability and the tragic intensity invite a critical, emotionally prepared reading.

What it's about

Of Mice and Men follows migrant ranch hands George and Lennie, close friends chasing a simple dream of their own small farm, as one impulsive act on a California ranch threatens both their livelihood and their fragile hope.

Also recommended by

2 people
8

For readers who prefer a reflective story where closeness opens questions of identity. Sáenz gives hesitation and emotional discovery room to develop, though the quiet pace and movement toward romantic feelings may not suit readers seeking purely platonic bonds.

What it's about

Fifteen-year-old Ari Mendoza is an angry loner when he meets Dante, an openhearted boy who offers to teach him to swim. Their unexpected friendship helps Ari confront family secrets, identity, and feelings he cannot yet name.

Also recommended by

1 person
9

A Man Called Ove

A Novel

by Fredrik Backman2012

For readers who want an accessible story about unexpected companionship after loss. Backman balances a prickly central voice with warmth, though the deliberate sentimentality and treatment of grief make this a more emotionally directed reading experience.

What it's about

Ove is a grumpy, isolated widower who strictly enforces neighborhood rules and plans to end it all to join his late wife. But his solitude is constantly interrupted by his boisterous new neighbors, who force him into a reluctant friendship that gives him a new reason to live.

10

Cat's Eye

by Margaret Atwood1988

For readers interested in the lasting effects of a damaging childhood bond. Atwood connects memory with adult identity through close observation, though the cruelty and uneasy retrospection offer a searching examination of friendship rather than reassurance.

What it's about

Artist Elaine Risley returns to Toronto for a retrospective and is flooded with memories of childhood. As she revisits a friendship that turned into cruelty, the novel traces how bullying, art, and identity echo across decades.

11

In Five Years

A Novel

by Rebecca Serle2020

For readers who want an emotionally driven novel that questions carefully planned lives. Serle uses a speculative premise to unsettle familiar expectations about love, though the strong reliance on surprising turns may frustrate readers who prefer gradual realism.

What it's about

Type-A Manhattan lawyer Dannie Cohan has her five-year plan nailed down until a vivid vision drops her into a future life with another man. Years later, when she meets him in reality, everything she believes about love and fate begins to unravel.

12

For readers who count a difficult pet among the family's closest companions. Grogan's humorous personal account gives ordinary affection room to grow, though its focus on life with a dog differs from the human friendships elsewhere here.

What it's about

John Grogan recounts family life with Marley, a Labrador whose destructive habits repeatedly test him and his wife, Jenny. The memoir follows their changing household and the affection that develops around a dog whose unruly behaviour never prevents him from becoming central to their lives.

13

For readers who want a sustained, unsentimental examination of friendship and rivalry. Ferrante makes education and class inseparable from the relationship, though the neighborhood cast and continuing series make this a substantial, deliberately unfinished first step.

What it's about

In a poor neighborhood on the edge of Naples in the 1950s, studious Elena and fearless Lila become inseparable rivals and friends. As they move from childhood to adolescence, school, class, and desire begin to pull their paths apart.

14

People We Meet on Vacation

by Emily Henry2021

For readers who enjoy friendship developing within a romantic story. Henry's alternating trips and timelines make a long shared history feel important, though the central romantic question takes priority over an exploration of friendship on its own.

What it's about

Opposite personalities Poppy and Alex maintained their friendship through annual summer trips until one vacation drove them apart. Two years later, Poppy persuades him to travel together again, hoping one week can repair their bond and address the feelings they have avoided.

15

For readers interested in how women's friendships are understood and valued. Schaefer combines personal experience with interviews and cultural observation, though the emphasis on changing attitudes provides more perspective than practical steps for maintaining a particular relationship.

What it's about

Kayleen Schaefer combines personal experiences, interviews with women and pop culture analysis to examine female friendship. She traces changing attitudes toward these relationships and explores the support women find in bonds often overshadowed by romance.

16

A Thousand Splendid Suns

by Khaled Hosseini2007

For readers who want solidarity explored under extreme social and personal pressure. Hosseini connects intimacy with Afghanistan's recent history, though war and domestic violence make this an intense reading experience rather than a comforting celebration of companionship.

What it's about

Set in Kabul and Herat over three decades of war, A Thousand Splendid Suns follows Mariam and Laila, two very different women forced into the same brutal marriage, whose unexpected friendship becomes their greatest source of courage, sacrifice, and hope.

Also recommended by

3 people
17

For readers who want a group friendship connected with family memory and reconciliation. Wells gives multiple generations a vivid shared history, though the shifting periods, large cast, and heightened emotions require patience with the novel's expansiveness.

What it's about

A public comment about her childhood causes a rupture between theatre director Sidda Walker and her mother, Vivi. Vivi's lifelong friends intervene with a scrapbook of memories, opening a path into the history of their friendship and the family's painful relationships.

18

Happy and You Know It

by Laura Hankin2020

For readers who enjoy friendship examined through social satire and group dynamics. Hankin makes class, work, and curated appearances part of the tension, though the secrets and exaggerated social setting can outweigh the quieter pleasures of companionship.

What it's about

Struggling musician Claire takes work entertaining babies in an affluent New York playgroup and becomes fascinated by their mothers' polished lives. As friendship blurs with employment, she discovers secrets beneath the group's wellness routines and curated appearances.

19

Swing Time

A Novel

by Zadie Smith2016

For readers who want friendship connected with ambition, race, and unequal opportunity. Smith's shifting perspectives enlarge the social questions around the bond, though the wide scope and detours make this less direct than a tightly focused relationship novel.

What it's about

Two girls in northwest London bond over dance, then grow into very different women. Moving from childhood friendship to celebrity, money, and global charity work, the novel asks what art can save and what inequality quietly distorts.

Sources

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