Pierre Alex Jeanty Books in Order

If you want the first books: Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman → Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman II → To The Women I Once Loved
If you want the books written for women: Her → Her Vol. 2 → Her III
If you want love and relationships from the men's side: Him → In love with you
If you're working through heartbreak: Apologies that Never Came → Ashes of Her Love → Sparking Her Own Flame → Heal. Grow. Love.
If you want the most practical next step: Really Moving On → What I Should've Texted

Pierre Alex Jeanty was born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, and spent his early childhood there before moving to the United States in February 2000. He settled in Immokalee, Florida, where he had to build a new life quickly, learning English through cartoons and ESOL classes while adjusting to a new school system.

He was learning a new language and figuring out who he was at the same time.

In high school, Jeanty stood out in two very different ways. He did well in class, and he also became one of the stronger cross-country and track runners at his school. Later he attended Bowdoin College in Brunswick, Maine, but left after his second year and started looking for a different path.

That path turned online. He spent years networking on the internet, building an audience, and shaping the voice that would later define his books. He also created Gentlemenhood, a brand built around conversations about manhood, love, and relationships.

Writing came out of loss first. After the death of his childhood friends, he began writing lyrics, and that private habit slowly turned into something bigger. Because people already came to him for relationship advice, it made sense that his work would circle back to dating, heartbreak, mistakes, and the hard work of growing up.

In 2014, he left his full-time job to become a full-time relationship blogger. That same year he published Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman, the book that introduced many readers to his direct, confessional style. A year later, To The Women I Once Loved pushed further into reflection and gratitude, looking back at the women and relationships that helped shape him.

He writes like someone trying to say the hard thing plainly.

That plainspoken approach carried into Her, which became one of his best known books and opened his work to a much wider audience. Written from a male perspective but aimed at helping women feel seen, it mixes affirmation, heartbreak, self-worth, and emotional clarity. Her Vol. 2 and Her III continue that conversation, while Him turns the lens back toward men's inner lives, their silences, and the feelings they are often taught to keep hidden. A lot of his work lives in the space after the argument, after the breakup, or after the text you never sent.

He started out self-publishing and learned the business side as he went. That matters because his career is not only about writing poems. Books like Apologies that Never Came, Ashes of Her Love, Heal. Grow. Love., Really Moving On, and What I Should've Texted show how he moves between poetry, reflection, and direct guidance. Again and again, he comes back to self-worth, accountability, emotional honesty, and the slow work of healing. Readers often come for the short, quotable lines, but they stay because he puts familiar feelings into simple words without dressing them up too much.

Today, Jeanty lives with his family in southwest Florida. He runs Jeanius Publishing, travels as a speaker from time to time, and co-hosts The REALationship Therapy podcast with his wife, Natalie Jeanty.