Mindy Kaling Books in Order
Browse Mindy Kaling's books in order, with quick summaries, background on her memoirs and essays, and guidance on the best place to start reading or listening.
Last updated: June 7, 2026
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Publication Order
10 books
Matt & Ben
by Mindy Kaling
2004
Matt & Ben is a fast, two-person play that imagines how Matt Damon and Ben Affleck really came up with the script for Good Will Hunting. When a finished screenplay literally drops into their laps, the best friends argue, scheme, and test their loyalty to each other.
Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?
by Mindy Kaling
2011
Part memoir and part grab bag of lists, stories, and opinions, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? traces Mindy Kaling's path from pop-culture-obsessed kid to comedy writer. She riffs on friendship, romance, work, and body image with chatty, confessional humor.
Questions I Ask When I Want To Talk About Myself
by Mindy Kaling
2013
Questions I Ask When I Want To Talk About Myself is a deck of 50 conversation cards built around Mindy Kaling's favorite obsessions. Each prompt pairs a quick joke or anecdote with a question, making it an easy, funny way to get friends talking about themselves.
Why Not Me?
by Mindy Kaling
2015
Why Not Me? is Kaling's follow-up essay collection about building a career in Hollywood while trying to have a normal life. She writes about long workdays on her own show, messy friendships, dating at the office, and learning to claim her confidence in rooms where she once felt out of place.
Big Shot
by Mindy Kaling
2020
Big Shot centers on Kaling picking up an eye-watering restaurant tab for a famous guest, hoping to look generous and important. When her gesture goes unnoticed, she spirals through doubt and overthinking, offering a funny, pointed look at ego, money, and recognition.
Help Is On the Way
by Mindy Kaling
2020
Help Is On the Way follows Kaling through the hazy weeks after her daughter's birth, when a calm, capable baby nurse named Rose moves in. The story blends sharp jokes with a tender look at grief, fear, and accepting help as a new single mom.
Kind of Hindu
by Mindy Kaling
2020
In Kind of Hindu, Mindy Kaling looks at her tangled relationship with Indian heritage and Hindu faith after becoming a mother. Planning a traditional ceremony for her daughter pushes her to confront grief, guilt, and what it really means to pass culture on.
Once Upon a Time in Silver Lake
by Mindy Kaling
2020
Once Upon a Time in Silver Lake turns a simple night out into a mini thriller. After Kaling and her friend B. J. Novak meet a ragged fan on a dark street, a strange rideshare through Los Angeles becomes a story about fear, judgment, and intuition.
Please Like Me [But Keep Away]
by Mindy Kaling
2020
Please Like Me [But Keep Away] is a candid essay about social anxiety, starting with an excruciating childhood birthday party and ending at a star-studded fortieth. Kaling admits she craves approval, yet still dreams of slipping out of parties unnoticed.
Searching for Coach Taylor
by Mindy Kaling
2020
Searching for Coach Taylor is Kaling's funny, slightly wistful meditation on being single when everyone else seems partnered up. She daydreams about a flawless TV-dad-style soulmate while enduring condescending questions from married couples and redefining what she actually wants.
Where should I start?
If you’re new to Mindy Kaling’s writing: Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns) → Why Not Me?
If you want her Hollywood and work stories: Why Not Me? → Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns)
If you’re curious about motherhood and identity: Kind of Hindu → Help Is On the Way → Once Upon a Time in Silver Lake
If you relate to social anxiety and friendships: Please Like Me [But Keep Away] → Searching for Coach Taylor → Big Shot
If you’re interested in her early stage work: Matt & Ben
Author bio
Mindy Kaling is a writer, actor, and producer who has built a career out of turning her own obsessions and insecurities into sharp comedy. Many people first met her as Kelly Kapoor on the American version of The Office, where she was also one of the show’s busiest writers. Since then she has created hit series, written bestselling books, and become a familiar voice in both live‑action films and animation.
She was born Vera Mindy Chokalingam in Cambridge, Massachusetts, in 1979, to Indian parents who had emigrated from Nigeria to the United States the year she was born. Her father worked as an architect, and her mother was an obstetrician‑gynecologist. Growing up, she watched a lot of television sketch comedy and classic sitcoms, noticing that families that looked like hers were rarely on screen. That mix of feeling inside and outside the culture would later fuel much of her writing.
Kaling attended Buckingham Browne & Nichols School and then Dartmouth College, where she majored in playwriting. At Dartmouth she threw herself into campus comedy life, joining the improv troupe Dog Day Players and the all‑female a cappella group the Rockapellas. She also wrote and drew a comic strip called Badly Drawn Girl for the student paper, an early sign that she liked turning daily awkwardness into jokes.
While still in college she interned on a late‑night talk show, getting a first look at how professional writers’ rooms worked. After graduating in 2001, she moved to New York City with friends and pieced together a life doing stand‑up, temp jobs, and tiny theater projects. With her college friend Brenda Withers she developed Matt & Ben, a scrappy two‑hander that imagines how Matt Damon and Ben Affleck really wrote Good Will Hunting. The play became a Fringe Festival hit, ran off‑Broadway, and put her on the radar of television producers.
That break led to The Office. Hired at 24, Kaling was initially the only woman and the only person of color in the writers’ room. She quickly became one of its most prolific writers, eventually producing the show and earning an Emmy nomination for co‑writing the wedding episode “Niagara.” At the same time, her turn as Kelly Kapoor — chatty, romantic, and pop‑culture obsessed — made her a fan favorite.
After nearly a decade on The Office, Kaling created, wrote, produced, and starred in The Mindy Project, playing an obstetrician navigating messy relationships and a demanding job. It was one of the first American network comedies created by and starring a South Asian woman. She has since co‑created other series centered on young women, including the coming‑of‑age comedy Never Have I Ever and the college ensemble The Sex Lives of College Girls, as well as later projects like the sports‑world comedy Running Point.
Alongside television, Kaling has built a steady writing career on the page. Her first memoir, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns), blends childhood stories, early career missteps, and sharp opinions on friendship and romance. Why Not Me? continues the story through her years running a TV show, reflecting on body image, ambition, and the strange rituals of Hollywood. In her third collection, Nothing Like I Imagined (Except for Sometimes), she writes more intimately about single motherhood, grief for her late mother, faith, and the push‑pull between craving attention and wanting to hide.
Her work has been recognized with multiple Emmy nominations, two Screen Actors Guild Awards as part of The Office ensemble, and major honors such as inclusion in the Time 100 list, a National Medal of Arts, and a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Through it all she has kept a steady focus on telling funny, grounded stories about women who want a lot from life and aren’t shy about saying so.
Today Kaling splits her time between writing rooms, producing new projects through her own company, and raising her three children. She remains close friends and collaborators with fellow writer‑actor B. J. Novak, often joking that their relationship defies easy labels. In her books, shows, and essays, she keeps returning to the same questions: how to work hard, love deeply, and stay yourself, even when the spotlight is very bright.
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