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Alexandra Stoddard Books in Order

Browse Alexandra Stoddard books in order, with short summaries, where-to-start tips, and a clear guide to her home, design, happiness, and family books.

Last updated: July 5, 2026

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Style for Living

by Alexandra Stoddard

1974

Her first book is both a decorating guide and a broader argument for living with intention. Stoddard starts with personal lifestyle, then shows how rooms can grow and change with the people using them.

A Child's Place

by Alexandra Stoddard

1977

Stoddard turns her eye to children's rooms, showing how space, color, privacy, and storage can shape daily life. The book encourages parents to make rooms that feel practical, cheerful, and truly a child's own.

The Postcard As Art

by Alexandra Stoddard

1986

This unusual volume gathers art postcards and Stoddard's personal reflections on favorite paintings from museums around the world. It is part keepsake, part small invitation to bring art into everyday life.

Book of Color

by Alexandra Stoddard

1989

This is Stoddard's guide to using color more boldly and thoughtfully in everyday life. She explains how shades affect mood and offers practical decorating ideas that make rooms feel more alive.

Living Beautifully Together

by Alexandra Stoddard

1989

A book about relationships, generosity, and the small gestures that keep people close. Stoddard offers ideas for showing care, planning simple pleasures, and making room for others without neglecting yourself.

Daring to Be Yourself

by Alexandra Stoddard

1990

Stoddard asks readers to define their own style at home, at work, and in daily life. The book is about self-expression, confidence, and building beauty around what genuinely feels like you.

The Gift of a Letter

by Alexandra Stoddard

1990

A warm defense of old-fashioned letter writing as a way to give time, attention, and feeling. Stoddard mixes anecdotes and suggestions to show how a simple note can carry lasting meaning.

Creating a Beautiful Home

by Alexandra Stoddard

1992

Drawing on her work as a designer and on her own 1775 Connecticut home, Stoddard shares ideas for every room. The focus is not showiness, but warmth, welcome, and everyday livability.

Grace Notes

by Alexandra Stoddard

1993

A full year of brief meditations, quotations, and prompts, meant to be opened one day at a time. Stoddard moves through themes like joy, courage, loss, and growth with a warm, steady voice.

Book of Days

by Alexandra Stoddard

1994

Part datebook, part companion, this volume pairs practical space for notes with upbeat reflections on everyday living. It is designed to help readers mark special days, capture thoughts, and make room for joy.

Making Choices

by Alexandra Stoddard

1994

Stoddard encourages readers to trust themselves and take joy in decisive living. The book is about self-reliance, risk, and shaping a life that fits your own nature instead of someone else's script.

Tea Celebrations

by Alexandra Stoddard

1994

Using tea as both ritual and symbol, Stoddard explores the quiet pleasures of gathering, pausing, and paying attention. It is a small, serene book about friendship, hospitality, and making space for calm.

Mother's

by Alexandra Stoddard

1995

This brief celebration of motherhood looks at both its blessings and its demands. Stoddard writes from personal experience about how caring for children deepens responsibility, tenderness, and the way we move through life.

The Art of the Possible

by Alexandra Stoddard

1995

A gentle push against perfectionism, this book argues that beauty and freedom grow when we loosen our grip. Stoddard connects the search for an ideal home with a larger search for balance, creativity, and ease.

Gracious Living in a New World

by Alexandra Stoddard

1996

Written for hectic times, this book is about staying calm and protecting joy when life feels rushed. Stoddard turns simple pleasures and steady routines into tools for emotional balance.

Living a Beautiful Life

by Alexandra Stoddard

1997

One of her best-known books, this is a practical philosophy of making ordinary days feel special. Stoddard turns chores, routines, and small rituals into chances for order, pleasure, and calm.

Living in Love

by Alexandra Stoddard

1997

Stoddard looks at love as a daily way of living, not just a romantic feeling. Mixing personal stories with reflections on commitment, loss, and joy, she explores how affection can shape a whole life.

The Decoration of Houses

by Alexandra Stoddard

1997

Drawing on classic design principles, Stoddard shows how to create rooms that feel timeless, personal, and alive. She covers color, texture, lighting, and finishing touches without losing sight of the people who live there.

Open Your Eyes

by Alexandra Stoddard

1998

Stoddard teaches readers how to notice beauty in the details of everyday life, from a table setting to a thrift-shop find. It is part design handbook, part lesson in seeing with more care.

Feeling at Home

by Alexandra Stoddard

1999

Less about trends than self-knowledge, this book asks what kind of rooms help you feel most like yourself. Stoddard guides readers toward homes that support daily life, comfort, and emotional balance.

Things I Want My Daughters To Know

by Alexandra Stoddard

2004

A compact collection of frank, affectionate life lessons for daughters and anyone else who needs perspective. Stoddard writes in short bursts about family, guilt, pain, confidence, and what really matters.

Time Alive

by Alexandra Stoddard

2005

Organized around seven parts of life, this book asks readers to spend their time with more intention. Stoddard blends personal stories and practical habits to help turn busy days into meaningful ones.

Choosing Happiness

by Alexandra Stoddard

2006

Stoddard argues that happiness is not luck but a daily practice. Through brief reflections and concrete ideas, she shows how attention, kindness, and small choices can make ordinary life feel richer.

You Are Your Choices

by Alexandra Stoddard

2006

In fifty short essays, Stoddard makes the case that the good life is shaped by what we choose to think, do, and value. It's a practical, upbeat book about self-trust and everyday freedom.

Happiness for Two

by Alexandra Stoddard

2007

A relationship guide built from short essays on sharing joy, making decisions together, and protecting each person's happiness. Stoddard focuses on everyday habits, gratitude, and small acts of care that help love last.

Things Good Mothers Know

by Alexandra Stoddard

2009

Stoddard celebrates the hard, tender work of motherhood while urging mothers not to lose themselves along the way. It mixes practical encouragement with reflections on happiness, growth, and raising good children.

The Shared Wisdom of Mothers and Daughters

by Alexandra Stoddard

2013

A follow-up to Things I Want My Daughters to Know, this book gathers lessons Stoddard has learned from mothers, daughters, and her own family. It celebrates conversation, memory, love, and the ties between generations.

Where should I start?

If you want her signature home and lifestyle book: Living a Beautiful LifeOpen Your EyesCreating a Beautiful Home
If you want direct happiness advice: Choosing HappinessYou Are Your ChoicesTime Alive
If you want books about mothers and daughters: Things I Want My Daughters To KnowThings Good Mothers KnowThe Shared Wisdom of Mothers and Daughters
If you want relationship-focused reading: Living in LoveHappiness for Two

Author bio

Alexandra Stoddard was born in Weston, Massachusetts, and moved with her family to Westport, Connecticut, when she was five. She grew up in a restored eighteenth-century farmhouse, in a house where color, fabric, gardens, and the look and feel of rooms mattered. That early mix of beauty and daily life stayed with her, and it helps explain why so much of her later work treats home as something emotional, not just decorative.

She started paying attention young.

At sixteen, her aunt Ruth Eleanor Johns took her on a trip around the world. Stoddard has said that the journey opened her eyes to architecture, design, and beauty, but also to suffering and sorrow. That contrast became important to her writing. Beauty, in her view, was never only about pretty things. It was also about how people steady themselves, make meaning, and care for one another.

She studied at the New York School of Interior Design on a full scholarship and graduated in 1961. From there she joined McMillen Inc., one of the best known design firms in New York, and worked under Eleanor McMillen Brown. Years in that world gave her a strong grounding in proportion, light, color, and the practical business of making rooms work for real people.

In 1977 she launched Alexandra Stoddard Incorporated, her own design firm. The work took her from cottages and apartments to larger, more formal homes, but her ideas kept circling back to the same question: how do you live well inside the life you actually have? That question pushed her beyond design work and into writing, lecturing, and a broader conversation about happiness, routine, and self-expression.

That shift made sense. Her books often read like a bridge between decorating advice and a life philosophy. In Living a Beautiful Life, she turned chores, rituals, and ordinary days into chances for order and pleasure. In Open Your Eyes and Creating a Beautiful Home, she taught readers how to notice proportion, texture, and color without losing sight of comfort. And in Choosing Happiness, You Are Your Choices, and Time Alive, she moved even more directly into questions of attitude, time, and the choices that shape a day.

She has always been more interested in how a room feels than how it photographs.

That is one reason readers tend to come back to her books. She writes about homes, relationships, motherhood, and personal style in plain, usable ways. Titles like Things I Want My Daughters to Know, Things Good Mothers Know, and Happiness for Two show another side of her work, one centered on family life, marriage, affection, and the quiet habits that help people stay close. Even when she is talking about flowers on a table or where to place a chair, she is usually also talking about attention, gratitude, and being true to your own taste.

Her public life grew with the books. She hosted the HGTV program Homes Across America, wrote a monthly column for McCall's Magazine, appeared on national television, and led retreats built around happiness and daily living. But the core message stayed surprisingly steady: make your surroundings more personal, make your habits more intentional, and stop treating joy as something that has to wait.

Stoddard lives in Stonington Village, Connecticut, and remains closely connected to readers through her monthly newsletter. She is the mother of Alexandra and Brooke and has four grandchildren. Even now, her writing still returns to the same familiar territory, light, home, love, beauty, gratitude, and the stubborn idea that a good life is built in small, conscious acts.

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