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29 Best Memoir Books

The best memoirs, ranked by how many expert sources recommend each one, with notes on voice, subject and the kind of reader each personal story suits.

Our take

A memoir offers a shaped view of a life, often concentrating on a relationship, a turning point or a question the writer cannot leave alone. Some of these books follow childhood into independence. Others examine grief, public life, identity or the demands of creative work. The voice matters as much as the events: humor, restraint, images and experimental structures can make similar experiences feel very different on the page.

Educated and The Glass Castle explore the difficult pull of family loyalty. Born a Crime uses comedy to illuminate childhood within a divided society, while When Breath Becomes Air and The Year of Magical Thinking stay close to illness and loss. Fun Home builds its family portrait through drawings and literary references; In the Dream House breaks with a straightforward timeline. Start with the subject you want to spend time with, then choose whether you prefer a continuous story, a collection of essays or a more experimental form.

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How to choose from this list

Skip to the full ranking

If you want family stories about finding independence: Educated → The Glass Castle
If you want humor with personal history: Born a Crime → Me Talk Pretty One Day
If you're drawn to grief and meaning: When Breath Becomes Air → The Year of Magical Thinking
If you want artistic lives and friendships: Just Kids
If you want memoirs that experiment with form: Fun Home → In the Dream House

The 29 books, ranked

Ranked by how many expert sources name each book. Ties go to the book more people recommend.

1

The Glass Castle

A Memoir

by Jeannette Walls2005

For readers interested in the tension between affection for parents and recognition of their failures. Walls keeps childhood uncertainty close to the surface, though the neglect and deprivation make this more troubling than a simple escape story.

What it's about

In this memoir, Jeannette Walls recalls a childhood spent chasing her parents' dreams through desert towns and a house in West Virginia, showing how hunger, chaos, and loyalty shaped her path to New York and adulthood.

Also recommended by

1 person
2

Educated

A Memoir

by Tara Westover

For readers interested in education, family loyalty and the cost of independence. Westover makes intellectual change feel personal and consequential, though the accounts of abuse and estrangement make this a demanding coming-of-age story.

What it's about

Tara Westover recounts growing up in an isolated survivalist family in Idaho without formal schooling. Her pursuit of education takes her to Cambridge, forcing her to confront family loyalties, violence, and the possibilities of a different life.

Also recommended by

7 people
  • Bill Gates recommended this book
  • Michelle Obama recommended this book
  • Barack Obama recommended this book
  • Kathryn Minshew recommended this book
  • Melinda Gates recommended this book
  • Shauna Niequist recommended this book
  • +1

    More recommendations

    • Marty Cagan
      "My personal favorite book of 2018." - Marty Cagan
3

Angela's Ashes

A Memoir

by Frank McCourt1996

For readers who want a childhood memoir that finds humor amid severe hardship. McCourt's conversational voice gives poverty an intimate human scale, though the repeated losses and deprivation can make the book emotionally exhausting.

What it's about

McCourt recounts his childhood in Depression-era Brooklyn and the Limerick slums, where poverty, illness, and his father’s drinking shadow the family. Humor and storytelling help him survive without softening the hardship.

4

When Breath Becomes Air

by Paul Kalanithi2016

For readers drawn to questions of work, mortality and a meaningful life. Kalanithi's perspective as both doctor and patient makes those questions concrete, though the brief account ends without the distance of a completed recovery.

What it's about

Near the end of his neurosurgery training, Paul Kalanithi is diagnosed with terminal lung cancer and begins asking what makes a life meaningful. His memoir is clear-eyed, intimate, and deeply humane.

Also recommended by

8 people
5

For readers who like physical journeys intertwined with grief and self-examination. Strayed's account makes the trail's discomforts as important as its revelations, though the hiking narrative offers neither a route guide nor a tidy recovery story.

What it's about

After her mother's death and the collapse of her marriage, Cheryl Strayed impulsively sets out to hike the Pacific Crest Trail alone. With little preparation, she confronts the physical demands of the journey alongside the losses she carries.

Also recommended by

5 people
6

Know My Name

A Memoir

by Chanel Miller2019

For readers who want to understand a survivor's experience beyond a headline or court case. Miller's attention to everyday aftermath restores a fuller person to the story, though the assault and legal process are painful material.

What it's about

Chanel Miller reclaims the identity behind the name Emily Doe in an account of sexual assault and its aftermath. She describes the trial, isolation and struggle to heal, examining the treatment of survivors and the power of telling her own story.

Also recommended by

2 people
7

Becoming

by Michelle Obama2018

For readers curious about the private life behind a public role. Obama's attention to work, marriage and motherhood gives the political setting a personal scale, though readers seeking a detailed policy account should look elsewhere.

What it's about

Michelle Obama recounts her childhood in Chicago, professional life, marriage, motherhood, and years as First Lady. Her memoir explores the private experiences behind her public role, including the challenge of balancing family, ambition, and expectations.

Also recommended by

5 people
8

For readers who want humor alongside an introduction to life under apartheid and its aftermath. Noah makes language and family central to understanding social divisions, though the comedy sits beside serious accounts of danger and violence.

What it's about

Trevor Noah recalls growing up with a Black mother and white father in apartheid South Africa, where their relationship was illegal. Humorous and painful childhood stories explore race, language, poverty, belonging, and his mother’s determination to protect his future.

Also recommended by

3 people
  • Bill Gates recommended this book
  • Melinda Gates recommended this book
  • Hannah Hart recommended this book
9

For readers who want a childhood memoir shaped by a strong literary voice. Angelou connects personal experience with racism and the discovery of language, though the sexual violence and suffering make parts difficult to read.

What it's about

Angelou's landmark first memoir follows her childhood in Stamps, Arkansas, and California as she faces racism, trauma, and silence. Books, language, and stubborn selfhood slowly help her find her voice.

Also recommended by

3 people
10

Just Kids

by Patti Smith2010

For readers drawn to artistic friendship and the uncertain years before success. Smith's account of life with Robert Mapplethorpe gives creative ambition an intimate setting, though its affectionate perspective leaves some rough edges less closely examined.

What it's about

A legendary memoir of New York City in the late sixties and seventies. Smith chronicles her intense friendship and romance with photographer Robert Mapplethorpe as they both navigate poverty, youth, and the path to becoming artists.

Also recommended by

3 people
11

For readers interested in a graphic memoir that closely examines family secrets and sexuality. Bechdel's images and literary references complicate each recollection, though the dense allusions make this a slower read than its format might suggest.

What it's about

Alison Bechdel examines her childhood and complicated relationship with her father in this graphic memoir. Coming out as a lesbian, learning about his hidden sexuality, and confronting his death lead her to revisit family history through memory and literature.

12

Man's Search for Meaning

by Viktor E. Frankl

For readers interested in the connection between lived suffering and a psychological framework. Frankl pairs concentration-camp testimony with his approach to meaning, though the theoretical section changes the pace and should not be mistaken for universal advice.

What it's about

Viktor Frankl combines his account of imprisonment in Nazi concentration camps with an introduction to logotherapy. He explores the search for meaning, arguing that purpose and one's response to suffering can remain significant even under extreme circumstances.

Also recommended by

36 people
  • Jordan Peterson recommended this book
  • Jocko Willink recommended this book
  • Esther Perel recommended this book
  • Emma Watson recommended this book
  • Naval Ravikant recommended this book
  • David Blaine recommended this book
  • +30

    More recommendations

    • Terry Crews
      "Incredible." - Terry Crews
    • Jimmy Fallon
      "Talks about the meaning of life, and I believe you come out a better person from reading it." - Jimmy Fallon
    • Tony Robbins
      "Taught me that if you change the meaning, you change everything." - Tony Robbins
    • Simon Sinek
      "Single most important book you can read." - Simon Sinek
    • Michael Gervais
      "Outlines methods to discover deep meaning and purpose in life." - Michael Gervais
    • Daniel Pink
      "A hugely important book for me." - Daniel Pink
    • Ev Williams
      On the "books read" section of Ev Williams' GoodReads profile.
    • Bryan Johnson
      "His basic point is no matter the conditions we surround ourselves in, we can author our life." - Bryan Johnson
    • Dustin Moskovitz
      Dustin Moskovitz recommended this book on Twitter.
    • Sam Altman
      This book was on Sam Altman's bookshelf.
    • Chelsea Handler
      "One of those beautiful accounts of a terrible time in our history. His calm and sagaciousness, while witnessing one horror after another played out during his time in three separate concentration camps, is awe inspiring." - Chelsea Handler
    • Ryan Holiday
      "Looks at how we find purpose by dedicating ourselves to a cause, learning to love and finding a meaning to our suffering." - Ryan Holiday
    • Maria Popova
      "A meditation on what the gruesome experience of Auschwitz taught [the author] about the primary purpose of life: the quest for meaning, which sustained those who survived." - Maria Popova
    • Aniela Gregorek
      "A book I have gifted to many people because it changed the way I think about human suffering and grace in life." - Aniela Gregorek
    • Fedor Holz
      "[From it] I interpreted that we cannot avoid suffering, but we can choose how to cope with it, and that having meaning in our life is essential." - Fedor Holz
    • Turia Pitt
      "[If people are] doing a bit of soul searching, hands down [I give them this book]." - Turia Pitt
    • Chip Conley
      "If I were to take the meaning of [this book], and turn it into an equation, it would be despair equals suffering minus meaning." - Chip Conley
    • Dave Elitch
      Dave Elitch mentioned this book on "The Tim Ferriss Show" podcast.
    • PewDiePie
      "A great tool to help people. [...] In case something really bad happens, I feel like, from reading this book, I'm better equipped to handle it." - PewDiePie
    • Shane Parrish
      "As hard as you think your life is, it pales in comparison to Auschwitz." - Shane Parrish
    • Phil Jackson
      "An important book for me." - Phil Jackson
    • Tom Bilyeu
      Tom Bilyeu recommended this book on his website.
    • Lex Fridman
      "I reread [this book] quite often." - Lex Fridman
    • Mark Manson
      Mark Manson recommended this book on his website.
    • Alastair Humphreys
      "Slim but packed with wisdom that I often come back to. I really recommend you read it." - Alastair Humphreys
    • Steve Kerr
      "Incredibly inspiring." - Steve Kerr
    • Robin Black
      "One of the great books ever written exists because of one of the worst times in human history. From suffering comes beauty." - Robin Black
    • Jim Kwik
      "Illustrates that it’s not our circumstances but the decisions we make that diminish or develop us." - Jim Kwik
    • Michael Hyatt
      Michael Hyatt recommended this book on his website.
    • Patrick Bet-David
      Patrick Bet-David recommended this book on his website.
13

Bossypants

by Tina Fey

For readers looking for comic personal essays about ambition, work and being a woman in entertainment. Fey's self-mocking voice makes the career material approachable, though the episodic format offers less depth than a sustained life narrative.

What it's about

Tina Fey recounts her childhood, early comedy experiences, and work on Saturday Night Live and television. These humorous autobiographical essays also explore motherhood, appearance, ambition, and the expectations women encounter while navigating careers and positions of authority.

Also recommended by

3 people
14

For readers seeking a young person's immediate account of life in hiding. The diary's ordinary frustrations and hopes make history intensely personal, though its unfinished nature and surrounding events require context beyond Anne's own pages.

What it's about

Anne Frank records life in hiding with her family during the Nazi occupation of the Netherlands. Her diary combines fears of discovery and the strains of confinement with reflections on adolescence, relationships, and hopes for the future.

Also recommended by

1 person
  • Alice Little recommended this book
15

For readers interested in trauma, embodiment and the judgments placed on bodies. Gay's short, direct reflections resist a simple transformation narrative, though their recurring pain and deliberate lack of tidy resolution can be difficult to sit with.

What it's about

Gay's memoir reckons with trauma, body image, appetite, and the gap between how she lives in her body and how the world sees it. It is intimate, unsparing, and deeply attentive to shame, survival, and self-protection.

Also recommended by

1 person
  • Emma Watson recommended this book
16

Me Talk Pretty One Day

by David Sedaris2000

For readers who want a memoir through funny, self-deprecating essays. Sedaris turns family life and language-school humiliations into carefully shaped scenes, though the collection's episodic humor offers less continuity than a chronological autobiography.

What it's about

Me Talk Pretty One Day splits its essays between Sedaris’s American past and his attempts to build a new life in France, chronicling artistic failures, eccentric family members, and the humiliations of language school with deadpan, self-mocking wit.

Also recommended by

1 person
17

For readers seeking a brief, direct account of surviving the Holocaust. Wiesel's spare focus on family and faith gives the testimony unusual intensity, though its brevity provides limited historical explanation alongside the personal experience.

What it's about

Wiesel's memoir follows his teenage self from Sighet to Auschwitz and Buchenwald alongside his father. In stark, unsentimental prose, it records the destruction of family, faith, and ordinary human life.

Also recommended by

1 person
18

For readers who value a distinctive voice and complicated family portraits. Karr's humor and sharp observations keep a troubled childhood vivid, though the nonlinear recollections and disturbing events call for close, patient reading.

What it's about

Mary Karr recalls growing up in an East Texas oil town with a hard-drinking father, a forceful sister, and a mother carrying dangerous secrets. Humor and vivid storytelling frame her account of a turbulent childhood and its lasting family mysteries.

Also recommended by

1 person
19

For readers who want a close examination of how grief alters thought and ordinary life. Didion's controlled, recursive prose captures the mind resisting loss, though its emotional restraint can feel distancing to readers seeking consolation.

What it's about

A memoir of the year after John Gregory Dunne's sudden death, written while their daughter Quintana lay gravely ill, this book follows Didion's looping, irrational magical thoughts as she tries to understand loss and keep an ordinary life going.

Also recommended by

1 person
20

Yes Please

by Amy Poehler

For readers who want comedy, career stories and reflections on collaboration in one collection. Poehler's generous, conversational style makes the backstage material inviting, though the shifts between memoir and advice can feel uneven.

What it's about

Amy Poehler combines personal stories, comic essays, advice, and reflections on her life in comedy. Experiences involving work, friendships, parenthood, and ambition form a candid collection about making choices, collaborating with others, and navigating the messiness behind public success.

Also recommended by

1 person
  • Mindy Kaling recommended this book
21

Crying in H Mart

A Memoir

by Michelle Zauner2021

For readers interested in how food carries family memory and cultural identity. Zauner makes cooking central to an intimate account of grief, though the detailed illness narrative can be especially hard for readers facing a similar loss.

What it's about

In this memoir, musician Michelle Zauner reckons with losing her Korean mother to cancer. Moving between Eugene, Seoul, and the kitchen, she explores grief, family tension, food, and the work of finding her way back to her heritage.

22

I'm Glad My Mom Died

by Jennette McCurdy2022

For readers interested in child stardom and the difficulty of recognizing parental control. McCurdy's blunt humor gives the account a distinctive voice, though the eating disorders, abuse and complicated grief make it far from light entertainment.

What it's about

McCurdy recounts becoming a child actor while trying to satisfy her mother's ambitions. She examines family control, eating disorders and the pressures of entertainment work, then describes the difficult process of building a life on her own terms.

23

H Is for Hawk

by Helen Macdonald

For readers who want nature writing entangled with a difficult emotional life. Macdonald's close attention to a goshawk makes grief feel physical and unpredictable, though the falconry detail and literary digressions may slow the narrative.

What it's about

After her father's sudden death, Helen Macdonald turns to training a goshawk named Mabel. Her memoir intertwines grief, falconry, and reflections on T. H. White, exploring the desire to retreat into wildness and the difficulty of returning.

Also recommended by

1 person
24

The Yellow House

A Memoir

by Sarah M. Broom

For readers drawn to family history rooted in a specific place. Broom connects one New Orleans house with questions of race, class and belonging, though the wide family cast and layered history require patient attention.

What it's about

Sarah Broom traces her family's history through the New Orleans East house her mother bought in 1961. Its loss after Hurricane Katrina frames a memoir about home, racial inequality, class, and the enduring pull of place.

Also recommended by

1 person
25

Untamed

by Glennon Doyle

For readers who enjoy personal stories mixed with encouragement to reconsider expectations and boundaries. Doyle's direct voice makes the reflections easy to engage with, though the advice-driven format offers less sustained narrative than other memoirs here.

What it's about

Glennon Doyle combines personal recollections with reflections on the expectations placed on women as partners, mothers, and friends. She explores self-trust, boundaries, body image, anger, and the effort to build a life guided by one's own desires.

Also recommended by

1 person
  • Hoda Kotb recommended this book
26

In the Dream House

A Memoir

by Carmen Maria Machado2019

For readers open to an unconventional account of abuse and its aftermath. Machado uses shifting forms to examine what familiar stories leave out, though the fragmented structure demands more active interpretation than a chronological memoir.

What it's about

Carmen Maria Machado revisits an abusive relationship with another woman, examining how control and fear reshaped her life. Shifting narrative forms connect personal memories with cultural silences surrounding domestic violence and the difficulty of telling such stories.

27

Men We Reaped

A Memoir

by Jesmyn Ward2013

For readers interested in how personal grief connects with a community's conditions. Ward's intertwined lives give racism and poverty specific human consequences, though the structure asks readers to follow several losses across shifting timelines.

What it's about

In this memoir, Jesmyn Ward recounts the deaths of her brother and four other young Black men from her Mississippi community, weaving their stories with her own to show how racism, poverty, and grief shape entire families and towns.

28

For readers interested in adoption, biological family and the limits of imagined origins. Homes brings a searching, sometimes uncomfortable perspective to reunion, though the difficult relationships offer few of the reassurances common to family-discovery stories.

What it's about

Adopted at birth, A. M. Homes meets her biological parents as an adult and begins exploring the history they had kept from her. Her memoir considers identity, belonging, and the difficult relationships that emerge when an imagined family becomes real.

29

For younger readers interested in education and standing up to political violence. This adaptation makes Malala's experiences more approachable than the adult memoir, though it simplifies some of the wider historical and political context.

What it's about

In this adaptation for younger readers, Malala Yousafzai recounts her childhood in Pakistan and her campaign for girls' education. Written with Patricia McCormick, it follows her resistance to Taliban restrictions, the attack she survived, and continued advocacy.

Also recommended by

1 person

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