Books Recommended by Esther Perel
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Fighting for Your Marriage
A Deluxe Revised Edition of the Classic Best-seller for Enhancing Marriage and Preventing Divorce
Howard J. Markman
Source: "On its surface, it’s a book about marriage of course, but you just go one layer deeper and it’s a study of the underlying issues that shape the way that we relate." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderSex at Dawn
How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships
Christopher Ryan
Source: Esther Perel suggested this book as an answer to "What are some [resources] for couples who want to explore having a more “monogamish” relationship?"
Sync Your Relationship, Save Your Marriage
Four Steps to Getting Back on Track
Peter Fraenkel Ph.D.
Source: "You must take the time, read this timely book and find out how you can redeem your relationship from the time crunch." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderYou Can Be Right (or You Can Be Married)
Looking for Love in the Age of Divorce
Dana Adam Shapiro
Source: "I felt as if [the author] were eavesdropping in my office. A grand reportage of marriage and its discontents." - Esther Perel
3 recommendersHow to Fix a Broken Heart
Guy Winch
Source: "Provides the validation, comfort, and hope anyone who is heartbroken desperately needs." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderThe Return of Desire
A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion
Gina Ogden
Source: "Probes the intricacies of female sexuality with subtle depth and understanding." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderLiquid Life
Zygmunt Bauman
Source: "I came one way and I finished the book and left another way." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderNonviolent Communication
A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships
Marshall B. Rosenberg
Source: "I think that this book is a classic for anyone who is thinking relationships." - Esther Perel
4 recommendersLove Rules
How to Get the Relationship You Want
Joanna Coles
Source: "For those looking for a smart, no-bullshit, effective guide to finding love." - Esther Perel
2 recommendersCrime and Punishment
Fyodor Dostoevsky
Source: "You can reread the Russians. They are timeless." - Esther Perel
Family Healing
Strategies for Hope and Understanding
Salvador Minuchin
Source: "It will change your whole way of understanding relationships." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderMan's Search for Meaning
Viktor E. Frankl
Source: "The book I’ve probably gifted the most is [this book], since I’m 16." - Esther Perel
36 recommendersAniela GregorekBryan JohnsonChelsea HandlerChip ConleyDaniel PinkDave ElitchDavid BlaineDustin MoskovitzEmma WatsonEsther PerelEv WilliamsFedor HolzJim KwikJimmy FallonJocko WillinkJordan PetersonLex FridmanMaria PopovaMichael GervaisNaval RavikantRyan HolidaySam AltmanSimon SinekTerry CrewsTony RobbinsTuria PittPewDiePieShane ParrishMark MansonPhil JacksonTom BilyeuMichael HyattAlastair HumphreysSteve KerrRobin BlackPatrick Bet-DavidMarriage Confidential
The Post-Romantic Age of Workhorse Wives, Royal Children, Undersexed Spouses, and Rebel Couples Who Are Rewriting the Rules
Pamela Haag
Source: "Timely and thought-provoking analysis of modern coupledom." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderThe New Monogamy
Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity
Tammy Nelson PhD
Source: "As crisp and clear as it is hopeful and realistic." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderTaking Sexy Back
How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want
Alexandra H. Solomon
Source: "On my top list of recommended sexuality readings." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderCan Love Last?
The Fate of Romance over Time
Stephen A. Mitchell
Source: "Was part of the spine of my book 'Mating In Captivity.'" - Esther Perel
1 recommenderIf This Is a Man and The Truce
Primo Levi
Source: "One of the most powerful books one ought to read." - Esther Perel
2 recommendersRekindling Desire
Barry McCarthy
Source: "One of my go to books on sexuality, consider it yours." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderBreaking the Male Code
Unlocking the Power of Friendship
Robert Garfield
Source: "I recommend for many of you." - Esther Perel
1 recommender- 1 recommender
The Art of Gathering
How We Meet and Why It Matters
Priya Parker
Source: "A powerful tool for connection." - Esther Perel
1 recommenderThe Erotic Mind
Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment
Jack Morin
Source: "I reread." - Esther Perel
1 recommender
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